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Title: He's turned off by her animal-rights shtick
Post by: Gutpiles on April 13, 2014, 04:09:08 PM
I never thought I would be posting an article on dating advice, but this is just too good not to share:  (*Especially the columnists last line in the article LMAO)  Would you date someone like this?

He's turned off by her animal-rights shtick
Advice Goddess by Amy Alkon
Save the wails  ** full story: (

"Are guys scared of politically active women? My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me over my support for animal rights, and I've generally had difficulty keeping boyfriends because of this. This boyfriend was bothered by two incidents. In the first, I got into an argument about zoos with one of his friends at a party. Another time, we were driving alongside a car with a pro-hunting bumper sticker, and I rolled down my window and shouted something to the driver. I'm trying to do good protect creatures without a voice. Does that mean I don't deserve a boyfriend? Yes, I Stand for Something"

Men tend to like it when a woman screams passionately, but it's less sexy if what she's screaming is "McDonald's is murder!"

But, wait you're trying to do some good; don't you "deserve" a boyfriend? You, like the rest of us, deserve not to be run over by a truck. The Declaration of Independence also spells out that "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness" stuff we're all supposed to get. That's right; you have a right to chase happiness. It doesn't get delivered to your door. ("Sign here, please.") And the reality is, every requirement you have for a boyfriend and every, well, nonstandard practice you have (like Wicca, being a serious Civil War re-enactor, or a hobby of throwing fake blood on people in fur) narrows your options. The size of a person's dating pool is determined by his or her level of hotitude factored with how hard they are to be around. (An annoying 9 might still have many romantic opportunities, though with limited staying power.)

And just a guess, but for at least some of these guys who dumped you, maybe the problem wasn't so much your support of animal rights as it was your lack of boundaries in expressing it. Even a guy who's with you in principle on sticking up for Bambi and the lab rats might not be comfortable with your transforming every social gathering into an animal rights protest rally. Also, consider that there's a difference between speaking your mind and yelling it out the window at someone who has announced in writing on his vehicle that he is likely armed.

In other words, you can refuse to ever bend your principles, or you can have a man in your life. This isn't to say you have to start wearing snow leopard legwarmers and eating baby seal McNuggets; you probably just need to divide the world into political and social forums. Social forums would be reserved for pleasant cocktail party conversation even if a guy is gnawing meat off a skewer and you long more than anything to stick him in the eye with it and say, "See how you like it!"

When you start dating somebody new, ask him what his comfort zone is regarding your activism, and either respect the boundaries he needs or be honest if you can't or won't. If you come to see a relationship as a party of two, each of whose needs matter, there's a good chance you'll find a guy who'll at least be there to bail you out of jail maybe for years to come until you two finally retire to the country to run a lentil rescue. (Some say they scream when you drop 'em in boiling water.)

LMAO * Gut Pile Style
Title: Re: He's turned off by her animal-rights shtick
Post by: John Andrews on April 14, 2014, 07:39:08 AM
  O0 That's a really great retort to her madness!
Title: Re: He's turned off by her animal-rights shtick
Post by: MOSPARKY on April 14, 2014, 10:40:26 PM
amazingly civil but to the point.
Title: Re: He's turned off by her animal-rights shtick
Post by: fuzztsimmers on April 15, 2014, 08:40:31 PM
I would have said just learn to love those animals she has a wide on for.